What does If you think it, if you see it, if you feel it, it will happen even mean? What a long title today. It is actually quite simple. Have you ever wished for something that just never happens? I am going to assume you said yes. Then have you ever wished for something and it actually happened? If yes, what was the difference?
I have been playing with visualizations and mediation lately. There are three main things I wish for. One, happy and healthy relationships. Two, being happy, healthy, and strong individual. Lastly, more wealth in my life! I have wished and wished and wished and does my situation improve? Not overly or drastically very often. Instead of sitting in a self-pity pool of grief, I asked myself why. I asked did I actually believe it was possible for what I was wishing for? Was I focusing too much on the negative? Was I making excuses for where I currently am? And, was I obsessing about the now? The Answer? Yes, yes, yes, and yes.
I decided something needed to change. I started watching various videos and talking to different people and I came up with a method for myself. I found soft relaxing mediation music online and I would play it. While the music plays, I close my eyes and picture my future goals as if they are happening now. I feel the emotion, I sense it with all my senses, and I feel it throughout my whole body. I only focus on the future and not the past. I don’t let negative thoughts creep in. I do this for about 10 minutes for each goal a couple of times a day. Usually first thing in the morning and before I go to bed. If I have spare time throughout the day, I add this in.
Another key aspect to this, is not to picture how it is happening. I don’t create the how, that is the universe’s job. It will just show up for me. I will see something and I know to make that choice because it will feel light and breezy. I am not going to stress with the “should” in life and I will make my own path.
So how has this been working out? After two days of this, a cheque came in the mail. A sizeable refund. Something that my husband and I were not expecting. Not only that, I am seeing improvements in my relationships and health. How does it get any better than that?!? I am going to keep asking and see what else I receive.